As a guy, being interested in a girl is so nature, causing you to make moves to ask her out. Yeah, you alone know what exactly gets you attracted to a lady, before taking the bold step to as her out.
Of course, asking a lady out isn’t as easy as many girls feel. Although for some guys, it’s no big deal but many struggle with grabbing the boldness required to ask a lady out.
It’s even more difficult to ask a lady out when in need of a serious relationship.
Most guys natural have got poor structure in asking a girl out. No matter how scared or shy you may be, there’s a simple guide you mustn’t fail to go by, because it matters a lot.
Are you wondering right now what that guide may be?
Chill, take a drink and read through, as that’s exactly what this post was made to discuss.
Without wasting even a sec., let’s dive right in.
Know this if you must ask a lady out
This guide is made for you alone, to help you become smarter and better in asking a lady out whom you are interested in.
Just as simple as it sounds, it’s very necessary and the first step to wining a girl.
Don’t be shy when of course you aren’t.
Rather be smart and apply the right positioning.
If there’s any lady you think you are interested in and may want to date, you need to reach out.
You need to meet her.
You can’t keep observing from afar and telling how friends how you love.
Your love journey only starts when you reach out to her.
You need to kill the fear of rejection as soon as you start catching feelings.
When asking a girl out, it’s always a win-win. There’s nothing to lose.
If she gives you a ‘Yes’, you have her as a girl friend and if she says ‘No’, she has lost someone who care a lot about her.
You win and your conscience will always be at rest as compared to when you lack the confidence to reach out to her, expressing your feelings.
Yeah, you may think it’s more of a big deal and keep up delaying.
But also have it at the back of your mind that time waits for no man and secondly, she may just be waiting for the first guy to make a smart move to ask her out.
When asking a lady out, you must just be specific, else you look to her like one who is total confuse and don’t what he want.
Once you are specific while asking her out, it helps her judge quickly if she wants to have anything to do with you or not.
The last impression she wants to get from you is being confused.
Tell her exactly what you want from her on the onset.
So before reaching out to her, you must have concluded as to what you really.
Do you just want you both to be close friends or you want to date her?
Do you just want a close friend with no strings attached?
Do you want a sex partner or you are looking to date her, hoping to marry her?
You just shouldn’t avoid being specific at the onset.
Once you are specific as to what you want, then she senses you as being serious and your chances of winning her increases great.
Most guys ruin their chances of winning her over simply because they fail to be specific making things difficult for her.
The only way you can help her decide quickly if she wants you or not is when you are clear and specific as to what you want from her at the very first moment you start asking her out.
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