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5 Weird Things Guys Want In Bed But Feel So Shy To Ask (Your Man Inclusive)|R-R

Things guys want in bed – Guys display some level of shyness, when in bed with a girl and about to have sex. There’re lots of things he wants in bed with you but will feel so shy to ask.

Why do guys fail to ask for what they want when in bed with a girl?

It’s so natural; thousands of guys out the world are guilty of this.

Why guys fail to ask for what they want in bed?

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Both girls and boys love sex but for the mood of sex not to be ruined, it all depends on how well a guy is ready to play the game with his girl.

He fails to ask for what he wants in bed with you because he doesn’t want to ruin the moment or turn you down.

Your man can’t tell what exactly will piss you off suddenly when you’re about getting laid.

He feels shy to share some sexual thoughts with you during sex because he wants to secure the fun of sex rather than ruin it.

How to help a guy who can’t ask for what he wants in bed

Eight out of every ten guys fall into this group. They can’t ask a girl for what they actually want during sex.

To save your man and pull him out of this pit, in other to enjoy him, you need to observe him even more.

Ask to know his sexual fantasies.

Be flexible and ready to try out new things.

Above all, listen to what he has to say.

5 Things he wants in bed but will never ask

Welcome as I reveal to you the weird things your man wants in bed but will never ask you.

Seat up as we roll.

  1. He wants you to initiate sex

Guys are fed up of initiating sex all the time but will never tell you. They make it look so okay like it’s their duty to initiate sex all day long.

He secretly wants you to initiate sex but will never tell you.

Your man wants you to bring up those dirty talks and little romance which leads to sex.

He wants to feel you craving for him. He doesn’t want this feel to be felt only during your ovulation period, but always.

Show him you want to have him.

Your man will get a better erection and perform well when he sees you craving for sex.

When you are the initiator of sex, you’re on a better end as a girl

2. He wants you to take your cloth off yourself

Guys feel a little frustrated trying to take off your clothes and underwears. He struggles with them more often and needs you to take them off yourself, but will never tell you.

He won’t tell you to take them off yourself because he isn’t sure how you will react if he does. So he ends up not taking the risk. 

Learn to seduce your man before sex. Take those cloths off yourself; show him your beautiful body.

Show all you have got, till his arms are open to grab you.

No guy loves the stress inquired while trying to take off your bra and pant.

Help him by making things easy, as you know he will never ask.

3. Give him blow job

Do you know how to give blow job?

If you don’t, you need to learn the act. Guys love to have their girl go down on them.

He wants a mind blowing blow job which will make him moan so loud.

Only very few guys asks girls for a blow job. Every guy wants and enjoy it.

If you’re expecting your man to ask for it, he may never do. But that doesn’t mean he isn’t in need of one.

4. Ride on him

During sex, at some point, he needs you to ride on him. He needs you to get ontop of him and ride his nuts out.

But will he ask for it?

Of course not.

He feels you will put it on him as being weak or lazy as a man, so he never asks.

Sweet heart, it’s time to up your game when next you are in bed with him. Watch his progressive movement during sex. Once it slows down a bit, stop him, pull out and then give him a ride like you are incharge.

He’s definitely going to like it.

You can ask him about the experience after sex. But I bet the expression on his face as soon as you get busy will say it all.

5. Guide him

Yes, you heard me right, guide your man.

Most guys struggle to know what exactly their girl wants during sex.

He always want you to guide him, telling him all you ever want at each point during sex.

But will he ask?

No, he will never ask. He keeps to trial and error method to see you are satisfied.

Guys want you to guide them during sex.

Your man wants you to tell him exactly what you want and how you want it.

He needs you to be his queen in bed. And what does a queen do in bed? She guides her king.

Tell him everything…you stand a chance to enjoy yourself after wards.

Conclusion

In our bid to solving problems relating to sex, relationship, and marriage, we advise you to take these five points seriously to help your man understand you better.

More pleasure is the reward to a listening ear.

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How To Suck A Penis The Right Way And Up Your Game Today|R-R

Learning  gets us improved, especially in areas where many have failed, like how to suck a penis to give your man an amazing blowjob.

If you want to know how to suck a penis the right way, get ready. I’m about to teach you how to give a man amazing head using the following easy blowjob tips and techniques

You’ll be surprised at just how easy it is to give your man the best blowjob ever by trying just a few simple things.

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Here are 7 tips on how to suck a penis and give amazing head for the best blowjob of his life.

1. Start by practice on something phallic-shaped.

It’s completely normal to feel nervous if you’ve never sucked your man’s penis before. Don’t worry about that.

A great way to deal with your nerves and get rid of them for good is to practice first. Not on your man, but on something similar, like a banana or even a small cucumber.

By practicing, you can experiment and do things properly first. This way you will be much more relaxed and at ease when you do start giving a blowjob.

2. Use lots of saliva.

When learning how to give a blowjob, the more saliva you use, the better. It acts as a lubricant and will make the blowjob feel way smoother and enjoyable for him.

You may think that more saliva will make it seem sloppy and even a little messy. The funny thing is that this will make it seem messy and sloppy to you, but your man won’t particularly care as it will feel so good.

A great way to produce more saliva is to have a piece of chewing gum or even a piece of candy right before you go down on him.

3. Lick his penis as you go.

When you first start learning how to give a blowjob, you might immediately think about taking his penis into your mouth. This is fine, but it’s far more powerful to slowly build up to this point by building anticipation in a fun and enjoyable way for him.

Start by grabbing his penis and slowly licking it with your tongue from the base to the tip and then back down again.

The slower you lick, the better. When you get to the head of his penis, pay lots of attention to it as it’s the most pleasurable part of his penis to have stimulated.

4. Kiss it, too.

Instead of constantly licking your man’s penis, you can also kiss it. This is great for giving your tongue a break as well as introducing some variation into your blowjob.

Again, you’ll find that kissing the head of his penis provides him with the most pleasure. Feeling wet lips kiss his penis is going to feel far more pleasurable than if your lips are dry, so try using some saliva when you start kissing it.

5. Blow air on it.

Blowing air on your man’s penis is an interesting technique to use when learning how to give a blowjob. It’s a surprisingly powerful technique as it’s usually so unexpected.

When you have been giving blowjobs and there is a lot of saliva on it, if you blow on it, your man will experience an intense cooling feeling. He will most likely never have experienced this before, making it a welcome surprise for him. It will also give you a little break from sucking, licking or kissing his penis.

If you want to know what it feels like for your man, try licking your own finger and covering it with some saliva, then blowing on it. Notice the slight cooling feeling? This feels 20 times as intense on for your man on his penis.

6. Try “The Bob” technique.

The Bob is the classic way to give a blowjob.

To perform it, you need to take his penis into your mouth and wrap your lips around it so that no air can get in or out. Next, you just need to “bob” your head up and down, taking his penis into and out of your mouth.

When performing The Bob, you don’t need to take him all the way in like you would when deep throating, only about 1 to 2 inches.

Remember, it’s the tip of his penis that is the most sensitive anyway.

7. Then, try “The Triumvirate” method.

The Triumvirate is the most powerful thing you can do to your man when learning how to give a blowjob. It’s like oral sex dynamite. To do the Triumvirate with your man, you are going to need to do 3 things at once.

The first is performing The Bob on your man with your mouth. While performing The Bob with your mouth, you are going to use one hand to grab his penis and start giving him a handjob at the same time. Just wrap your hand around it and start stroking up and down.

With your other hand, you are going to be massaging his testicles. You need to cup them gently in your hand and slowly massage them between your fingers. Remember to be extra gentle with them as they are quite sensitive.

When you do all 3 parts of The Triumvirate at the same time, your man is going to have a really massive orgasm.

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Why Do Nipples Get Hard?|R-R

It time to know the science behind the phenomenon – why nipples get hard?

They get hard when we’re aroused and touched the right way. They also get hard when it’s cold, or when you just get out of the shower and the wind blows past you. They are sensitive, and everyone has ones that are slightly different from the next person.

Nipples, people. I’m talking about nipples. 

Why do nipples get hard?

Every human being is born with them, and yet they are so strange in so many ways. Perhaps the strangest thing about them is the fact that they tend to get hard from a variety of different stimuli. Most often, they harden up when they are exposed to cold, or when you’re sexually aroused.

Logically speaking, there’s not really an obvious reason as to why nipples would get hard.

So, what gives? Believe it or not, scientists have been researching the answer to this question for quite some time.

Here’s what they found out.

Why do nipples get hard?

The answer lies in the tissue and makeup of your nipples.

Nipples, like any other part of the human body, have nerve endings. These nerve endings are the very things that allow us to sense touch, or that tell our bodies to flex our muscles. Around our nipples, the nerve endings are ones that pick up on both physical and psychological stimuli.

So far, so normal, right?

Research has shown that the nerve endings present in our nipples are identical to the same nerve endings that give us the “hair standing on end” feeling. One scientist by the name of Alessando Furlan explained, “…One thing we found was that goosebumps and nipple erection are caused by neurons that are specialized to regulate these functions by controlling the erectile muscles in these tissues.”

Many of the nerve endings found in nipples and the surrounding areas are from the sympathetic nervous system, the part of your nervous system that literally shows physical responses to emotional triggers. 

Things like having your hair stand on end from fear, having sweaty palms on a date, and even getting that “dry throat” feeling are all controlled by this part of the nervous system.

Surprisingly, our bodies have specialized nerve endings that tell our nipples to harden when confronted with certain stimuli. These nerve endings are part of our sympathetic nervous system, too.

The way our bodies are wired, our nipples naturally react to arousal by hardening. It’s an emotionally-triggered response, and it’s one that we can’t control any more than sweaty palms or blushing.

We’re not quite sure why this happens, but it’s possible that it has something to do with a woman’s ability to breastfeed children once they get pregnant.

When women breastfeed, nipples also end up hardening as a way to help babies latch on to the new supply of milk. Babies that are breastfed from nipples that can’t harden up often won’t be able to latch on as easily.

Though this is currently the biggest theory of the “why,” it’s important to point out that we still don’t know why the human body involves hardened nipples as a sign of arousal. Could it be a weird “crossed wires” thing?

Perhaps, but it could also be a way for our bodies to indicate that we’re turned on to our partners.

Why do nipples get hard?

One thing to point out is that nipples also harden as a symptom of hormone-related issues in women.

There’s definitely a hormonal element to the mystery. Many women who are pregnant, menopausal, or even going through puberty tend to have nipples spontaneously become erect. The fluctuations that happen could be triggering a nervous response that science isn’t fully aware of yet.

So, what about the cold?

Oddly enough, the cold reaction isn’t fully understood by scientists, either. The current theory suggests that our nipples get erect due to hair follicles underneath and around the nipples’ surface.

When we’re cold, our hair stands on end as a way to trap warmth close to our skin. If this theory holds true, then the reason our nipples harden during the colder seasons is for the same reason. It’s a body’s way of trying to keep warmth inside rather than outside.

Moreover, areolas are a smooth muscle that is also wired to contract when stimulated through both temperature and touch. This can give a similar “hardened” appearance as well.

That being said, this trait seems to be one that no longer serves an evolutionary purpose. So, while it may have helped our ancestors in the past, there’s no sign that these traits are needed for anything other than causing embarrassing moments during winter.

Basically, we know the “how” behind the mystery, but not the “why.”

Right now, science doesn’t fully know the answer to the question “Why do nipples get hard?” especially during arousal, or what causes them to react to cold.

We do know a lot about the nervous system and how it plays into making our nipples get hard during times when there’s a lot of stimulation going on. However, the “why” of the question remains to be fully explained.

While we do have some pretty good running theories, we don’t entirely know why humans evolved this trait. That being said, it’s not a bad thing; it’s just another quirk of the human body.

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10 Lies Told To Young Girls About Sex|R-R

Lies flies around the world, and many have been told to young girls about sex.

When I look back on the favorite steamy movies of my youth, there wasn’t much actual sex in them. There was romance, passion, dreaminess, and fantasy, but not a lot of action.

So it doesn’t surprise me that my sexual encounters came up confusing once I became active.

Another thing that doesn’t surprise me is the conflicting schizophrenic arguments in my head over whether I was a slut or pristine, whether I was entitled to have sexual awareness, urges, and desires, and do something about them, or whether I was supposed to be a chaste waits-for-marriage kind of gal.

I grew up in the post-sexual revolution of girls thinking they could do and be anything, except boys didn’t quite catch up with that thinking. It made for a lot of unbalanced relationships and colored our images of ourselves.

This is why learning how to teach your daughter about sex is important. And I hope I’m teaching my daughters to be realistic about sex.

My girls are too young yet to have really in-depth talks about how to navigate their sexuality. But what I’ve said all along is that it’s best when sex is in a long-term, loving, committed relationship. And it’s even better when it’s a lifetime-guarantee kind of thing like marriage.

How to Talk to Your Daughter About Sex: 10 Lies To Stop Telling

10 Lies Told To Young Girls About Sex

It surprised me to say this, given my own adolescent activities, but looking back from my 40-something perch, I wish I hadn’t played around nearly as much. It’s much better now with the one partner I love the most and have the most fun with.

So here are the top 10 lies we must stop telling girls about sex, and how to talk to your daughter about it.

1. You have to do it in high school.

Really, what’s the rush? When I look at my tweens and teens, I see really young kids still. Even though bodies are changing, they’re more innocent than we think.

The other day, I saw a kid at a restaurant with a “F*** Everyone” cap on and several piercings; he ordered chocolate milk and drank it through a straw. There’s no rush to become an adult and take on all the complications that come with it.

2. It only matters who else is doing it, whether you’re too soon, too late, or too anything.

I know I cared what people thought when I was their age, but this much? It doesn’t matter what other people are doing, and even when they say they’re doing it, they’re often not.

Stop listening. Look within. You’ll know when you’re ready. And if you don’t know, you’re not ready.

3. You have to do it, period.

10 Lies Told To Young Girls About Sex

It’s a funny thing to say, but I’ve come to realize that there are many types of sexualities out there. Some people are really into sex, which is OK; most of us didn’t get that message growing up. There are people who just aren’t into sex, and that’s OK, too.

While I was thrilled to meet my second husband and finally fulfill my dreams of frequent, meaningful, satisfying intimacy, I know someone who’s truly content with once a week. It’s OK if you just don’t want it. And maybe when you find the right person, the sexual compatibility will change your perspective.

4. You should only do it when you’re married.

Sex is a physical act that has nothing to do with marriage. We’ve created that notion in our society and put it into a neat little box (no pun intended), which affects our perspectives.

The reality is that physical and emotional are two different things. Sure, sometimes we combine them, but let’s see it for what it is. Sometimes a raw night is all you want, no strings attached.

5. You should only do it when you’re in love.

The thing is, sex really is special when you’re in love, and it’s best in a long-term committed relationship when you know you’re not going to be left high-and-dry the next morning.

So when you’re having sex with someone who’s never going to leave, and who loves you as much as you love him, it’s a really different thing. Why waste it on just-someone who doesn’t mean much to you and whose name you’re likely not to remember in 10 years?

6. It’s only OK to say, “No.”

We teach girls to say no, but do we teach them to say yes? 

This is the game we play in the bedroom: guy makes the move, guy orchestrates the setting, guy initiates all the foreplay, guy comes equipped with birth control, girl lies there and receives.

Sorry, you’re going to have to be a better partner than that. Sex is so much better when you’re an active participant. Say no when you’re not interested, but say a very vocal yes when you are. And don’t feel bad about it.

7. You should value yourself by the quality of your sexual encounters.

Sometimes when you hype it up and anticipate it, it’s a let-down. That’s true for any long-anticipated act.

When it comes to sex, sometimes it’s good, sometimes it’s OK, sometimes it sucks. So be it. There are a lot of factors that go into making sex good. The quality of your character or attractiveness has nothing to do with it.

8. You have to know anything at all about the bedroom.

Never done it? No worries. Some of the greatest sex comes out of exploration. Let go and let loose. See what happens.

9. You should know everything and not expect the guy to know it for you.

When you’re dependent on a guy for your own pleasure, you’re at a serious disadvantage.

Girls need to figure out what turns them on and turn them off on their own, so when they finally come together with the right person, they’re architects of their own satisfaction.

Just like we teach girls that they must rely on no one else to get them through life, so it goes in the bedroom. Be the mistress of your own destiny.

10. You have to figure out how to not be emotional.

Girls are, by nature, emotional and attached when there’s sex involved. That’s just the way it is.

So, if sex is going to mess with your mind and distort your vision of a situation or relationship, don’t do it. There’s plenty of time to get it right; don’t waste your time getting it wrong.

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Is It Safe To Have Sex During Your Period?

Is It Safe To Have Sex During Your Period?|R-R

During your reproductive year, you’ll get a menstrual period about once a month.

There’s no need to avoid sexual activity during your period.

Though period sex can be a bit messy, it is safe.

Having sex when you’re menstruating can actually offer a few advantages, including relief from menstrual cramps.

What are the benefits of having sex during your period?

Is It Safe To Have Sex During Your Period?

Sex during period has a few up sides.

  1. Relief from cramps

Orgasm may relieve menstrual cramps.

Menstrual cramps are a result of your uterus contracting to release its lining.

When you have an orgasm, the muscles of your uterus also contract, then they release.

That release should bring some relief from period cramps.

Sex also triggers the release of chemicals called endorphins, which make you feel good.

Engaging in sexual activity occupies your mind, which may help take it off your menstrual discomfort.

  • Shorter periods

Having sex may make your periods shorter.

Muscle contractions during an orgasm push out the uterine contents faster. That could result in shorter periods.

  • Increased sex drive

Your libido changes throughout your menstrual cycle, thanks to hormonal fluctuations.

While many women say their sex drive increases during ovulation, which is about two weeks before your period, many report feeling more turned on during their period.

  • Natural lubrication

You can put away the KY gel during your period. Blood acts as a natural lubricant.

  • It might relieve your headache

About half of women with migraine headache get them during their periods.

Although most women with menstrual migraines avoid sex during their attacks, many of those who do have sex say it partially or completely relieves their headaches.

Tips On Having Sex During Your Period

sex Is It Safe To Have Sex During Your Period?

Here are a few tips to make period sex a more comfortable and less messy experience.

  • Be open and honest with your partner. Tell them how you feel about having sex during your period and ask how they feel about it.

If either of you is hesitant, talk about the reason behind the discomfort.

  • If you have a tampon in, remove it before you start fooling around.
  • Spread a dark-colored towel on the bed to catch any blood leaks, or have sex in the shower or bath to avoid the mess entirely.
  • Keep a wet wash cloth or wet wipes by the bed to clean up afterwards.
  • Have your partner wear a latex condom. It will protect against pregnancy and STIs. And it might make those males who have blood phobia feel more comfortable.
  • If your usual sexual position is uncomfortable, try something different. For example, you may want to try lying on your side with your partner behind you.

Don’t let your period put a halt to your sex life. If you do a little prep work, sex can be just as enjoyable during those four or so days, as it is the rest of the month.

You might be surprised to find that sex is even more exciting during your period.

What are the possible side effect of having sex during your period

  • The biggest down side to having sex during your period is the mess. Blood can get on you, your partner and the sheets, especially if you have a heavy flow.
  • Aside from dirtying the bed, bleeding may make you feel self-conscious. Anxiety over making a mess can take some or all of the fun out of sex.

But this can be prevented by avoiding your heavy flow days and have sex on the first and last 2days of your periods when you have a lighter flow.

  • Another worry about sex during your period is the risk of spreading a sexually transmitted infection (STI) like HIV or hepatitis. These viruses live in blood and they can spread through contact with infected menstrual blood.

Only have unprotected sex with people whose status you’re sure about and also using condoms every time you have unprotected sex can reduce your risk of spreading or catching an STI.

  • If you plan to have sex during your period and you’re wearing tampon, you need to remove it before hand. A forgotten tampon can get pushed so far up into your vagina during sex that you’ll need to see a doctor to have it removed.

Having sex with a girl who is on her period won’t give you chronic incurable cough as believed by many.

Can you get pregnant when you have sex during your period

If you aren’t actively trying to conceive, using protection is a good idea. No matter what part of your menstrual cycle you’re in.

Your chances of conceiving are lower during your period, but it’s still possible to become pregnant at this time.

You’re most likely to get pregnant during ovulation, which happens about 14days before your period starts.

Yet every woman’s cycle length is different and your cycle length can change monthly.

If you have a short menstrual cycle, your risk of getting pregnant during your period is higher.

Also consider that sperm can stay alive in your body for up to seven days. So if you have a 22-day cycle and you ovulate soon after getting your period, there’s a chance you’ll be releasing an egg while sperm are still in your reproduction tract.

Do you need to use protection when having sex during your period?

No, it’s not a must. Blood has no effects whatsoever on the penis but using protection will also guard you against STIs.

Not only can you get infected, but you can also more easily transmit one to your partner because viruses like HIV live in menstrual blood.

Have your partner wear a condom when you have sex to reduce your odds of getting pregnant and catching an STI.

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How To Get Satisfied Sexually Like Never Before|R-R

Struggling with sexual dissatisfaction right? Let me tell you some things you need to know in other to be satisfied sexually like never before. 

How To Get Satisfied Sexually Like Never Before

Have you been wondering why most causes of divorce in marriages is owned to sexual dissatisfaction, or probably you have been too intuitive, wanting to know how to avoid any form of sexual dissatisfaction in your relationship, or probably when you get married?

I wish to let you know that you’ve indeed picked up the right article. This article of mine goes as far as elaborating on the reasons why sexual dissatisfaction ever occurs in marriages.

To put up a clearer view of the content of this article, I did like us to make reference to the human body from a machine. If this can form a base in your mind, I guess the easy digestion of this article could be achieved.

How To Get Satisfied Sexually Like Never Before

Am going to make it very brief here, for a more enhanced understanding. The following under listed reasons are responsible for any form of sexual dissatisfaction in marriage.

Reasons for Sexual Dissatisfaction

  1. The system program

If you can recall, I told you initially that we did be taking our reference from a machine, just as a machine perform specific functions as it was been programmed by its manufacturer, so also does one exhibit various characters in marriage which they grew up with.

To clarify this point, I did like us to take an illustration.

Take for instance a guy whom before he got married, does have sexual intercourse with at least two girls a day.

With such a program already fully installed and running in his life, on getting married, how on earth do you think he’s going to be satisfied with just one lady a day, having at the back of your mind that such program has been running for years?

The reality is there’re bound to be a problem of sexual dissatisfaction, except the grace of God is implored.

  1. Masturbation/ Intercourse

When one experiences any form of sexual intercourse, be it masturbation, mutual sex, oral sex, anal sex, and so on, such an experience sticks to the brain. The brain most times shows to us how powerful it is, as such experience might not be easily forgotten.

How To Get Satisfied Sexually Like Never Before

Eventually, when sexual activities are performed after marriage, your subconscious mind tends to put up a scale, weighing both experiences of sexual intercourse to know which feels better.

If such a scale ranks your sexual experience before marriage better, I guess you are not far from the word dissatisfaction.

  1. Virginity

Throwing more light on the above, I did love you to know that one’s virginity has a major role to play. Virginity in this context simply means abstinence from any form of sexual intercourse.

How To Get Satisfied Sexually Like Never Before

When both partners before marriage are virgins, after marriage, on having intercourse, they feel it was best done, due to the fact that they haven’t obtained any pre-experience.

This saves them any form of sexual dissatisfaction as compared to one who is a “pro” getting married to a novice, in the long run, one partner is going to piss the other off.

That’s one of the basic reasons why people emphasize abstinence from sex until after marriage.

If you have been involved in one way or the other into pre-marital affairs, and you expect to shine sexually dissatisfaction in marriage, I did like you to have this at heart- “The room that never gets full is that of improvement”.

Change they say is constant. You could actually change a life of sexual dissatisfaction to that which satisfies. All you need is just getting started, work on yourself.

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8 Instant things guys look at for before considering having sex

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Do you have that unusual guy as a girl, whom you have been trying to have sex with but your magic doesn’t seem to work well on him?

Do you know there might be some cards you’re missing and some you aren’t playing rightly?

Here Is What Guys Think Before Sex

Relax as I talk you through eight (8) instant things boys look out for before considering to have sex with you.

Unlike girls, guys find it really easy to harbor the thought of having sex.

Just after a few minutes of meeting a girl, a guy can be turned on seriously for sex. But while some guys get turned on quickly, some others love to check out a list of things before considering having sex.

Let’s take a look at some of these things guys check out before they’re willing to have sex.

8 Things Guys Check Out To Have Sex With You Immediately

8 Instant things guys look at for before considering having sex

  1. Neatness

No matter how desperate a guy may need sex, he needs his girl to be neat to some extent.

When he sees you as neat, it triggers a feeling within him that considers you fit for all the dirty things he would love to do during sex.

Once you’re neat, he immediately senses you’re capable of taking good care of your private parts, which will have the thoughts of having sex with you slip through his mind.

Don’t give him that impression you aren’t neat.

Always appear very near. It’s like an aroma to a sweet soup. Stay free from any form of odor.

  1. Good Looking

Be gorgeous.

Let your appearance wow him.

A good looking or girl catches the eyes of men. Dress smartly.

Once you look good, he can’t help himself from salivating for sex, as it clouds his mind even when he’s yet to say a word.

  1. Be attractive

As you make effort to be good-looking, you need to be attractive as well.

An attractive woman or girl is hardly irresistible.

Once you’re attractive, you would magnet him naturally. He will always make effort to come closer to you.

Wear a charming smile often and be polite. With that, you’ll be killing him softly as he will be in desperate need to have sex with you.

Spend time to maintain eye contact, and then smile as you both look at each other in the eyes.

Such action creates an instant thought around sex within, as he will want to have you all to himself for sex.

  1. Attitude

Sex is personal life which’s shared.

If you want him to consider sharing that with you, showing a great attitude can win you that.

Don’t give him the slightest idea you’re a go digger or a spoilt brat.

Respect him to the peak.

Just stay humble and watch him fall for your charms, wanting to have sex with you.

  1. Self-confidence

From the way you speak to him, he can sense if you’re confident or not

Don’t be scared; rather be confident if you desire him.

Confidence goes a long way.

If he doesn’t perceive you to be confident, he won’t feel safe around you, not to talk of having sex.

Only guys who take advantage of girls feel comfortable around a girl who isn’t self-confident.

So if you are the shy type, learn to maintain eye contact more often, as it gives him the impression you’re confident. That too can lead to a desire for sex.

  1. Consider him a hero

As you both converse, once he tells you about some of his achievements see them as unique and consider them great. Give him that heroic feel he needs by telling you his achievements.

Men like that feel, especially when it’s coming from a lady.

It will get him on, as he feels appreciated, and having sex with you won’t be a big deal.

  1. Flexibility

Be flexible if you are seeking or want him to consider you for sex.

Open up when he throws a question instead of holding back words.

If he wishes you both hangout, offer him time for fun. The more flexibility he thinks is enjoyed around you, the more likely he will consider you when he needs sex.

  1. Be composed

Communicating well with a guy is being decoded as being composed by the male folks.

Try to hold an educative and interesting conversation.

Don’t be boring.

No guy wants to be around a boring lady who can’t sustain a conversation.

When you can, you get him addicted to you easily and when he does, having sex with you isn’t going to be a problem facing the challenge of time.

Conclusion

You can have that guy you so desire, it isn’t too difficult all you need to do is take action on the points noted in this post.

Go for him.   

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Have you been wondering about the things girls look out for before considering sex with you as a guy?

10 Things Girls Check Out To Have Sex With You Immediately

Although the female folks can be so unpredictable and confusing to guys that they don’t really know what puts girls on the edge.

Well, to clear your confusion, this pot will be revealing some secrets to you about the things running through her mind before considering going down with you.

Whether she’s new to you or she has known you for some time, what girls think about you before having sex with you is practically the same.

Without wasting much of your time, let’s dive into them quickly.

1. Body stature

All girls love a guy with a nice body stature.

If you want her to imagine or have thoughts of having sex with you, you must have an attractive body stature.

Yes, you need to work on yourself.

Few minutes each day in the gym can save you stress.

Girls really want to grab such a well-built body of yours.

It takes time and it’s worth the effort.

So go for it but be moderate, to avoid looking like an unbalanced cartoon drawing.

2. Odors

Odors generally, be it body odor or mouth odor is a no for all girls if she really wants to consider having sex with you.

No girl feels comfortable around a guy with an odor not to talk of have sex with such a person.

It irritates them in an instant.

But on the other hand, when you’re free from odors, she’s more likely to have those thoughts and feelings of having sex with you.

Always wear nice perfume.

3. Chemistry

10 Things Girls Check Out To Have Sex With You Immediately

Before she considers having sex with you, there must be an established form of connection.

She really wants to feel connected to you.

How you smile, laugh, your body language, the way you look at her, and all that could bring about a connection.

If she doesn’t feel connected to you in a slight way, it becomes difficult for her to even imagine having sex with you.

But the moment she feels that connection, no matter how little, you can be in her option for sex.

It’s all a mental state.

4. Good looking

10 Things Girls Check Out To Have Sex With You Immediately

Come on, by now you should know ladies take pride in their man’s appearance.

No girl wants her man to look shabby.

Once you’re neatly and smartly dressed, girls will naturally feel comfortable around you.

And such a level of comfort can graduate into wanting to have sex with you when the cards are played rightly.

Good appearance matters a lot and you need to be cheerful too.

5. Interesting Conversations

10 Things Girls Check Out To Have Sex With You Immediately

Ladies always prefer guys whom they can have an interesting conversation with, as compared to those whom they can’t.

It takes a good communicator to dictate what topics can be of interest to her in other to hold an interesting conversation.

The more you make her happy and laugh while in a conversation, the more likely you’re to get her down for sex.

No girl wants a dull moment, especially with a new dude.

This is one of the most difficult tasks for guys but practice makes you feel a lot better at it.

6. Selfish Talker or Poor Listener

There was once a time in my life when I was guilty of this.

I talk a lot about myself and fail to listen when talking to girls.

That shouldn’t be your case if you want her to have sex with you

Don’t talk only about yourself. Ask her few questions and listen attentively as she talks.

Hear her out.

And lastly, don’t talk about any other girl at that point except her, if you wish to be considered for sex.

7. Seeming Needy

10 Things Girls Check Out To Have Sex With You Immediately

Most guys when in need of sex, within the first few moments with a girl, show off what their intention is, especially when it’s sex.

Making the girl in question read the signs and automatically making her uncomfortable.

Be different.

Even when you want her down for sex, don’t give her any chance to dictate it. Don’t seem needy.

Always remember needy is creepy.

When she senses you aren’t really interested in sex, she is forced by her thoughts to initiate the mood, since she feels comfortable and safe around you, finding you attractive and interesting.

Let her lead on while you follow.

Don’t be too pushy.

8. Instant Attitude

Yes, you need to watch your attitude when you are around a girl hoping to be considered for sex, especially when you both haven’t known each other for a while.

Your attitude towards everyone around shows her that’s exactly the same way you will treat her.

Be nice.

Be nice to the waiters and everyone you practically come in contact with, while she’s with you.

Control anger.

Playing an upgraded attitude can throw her wholly to you for sex.

9. Looking at other girls

The last impression you want to give a girl whom you wish to have sec with is being a flirt.

The moment a girl senses you’re a flirt, it makes her completely withdrawn, and considering sex with you can be a lot difficult.

Looking at other girls gives her such an impression you may be a flirt, not minding if you aren’t.

So don’t take the risk.

Be focused on her alone.

10. Imagined dick size

Subconsciously, as a girl is trying to consider whether to have sex with you or not, she also tries to imagine the kind of dick size you’ve got.

If her imaginations tell her you’re big sized, you are more likely to get her shot for sex.

It’s just an image that triggers a feeling.

Conclusion

While trying to get her considers having sex with you, you need maximum focus.

Focus on her, texting during a date is a red flag. End those awkward silences and rather be interesting.

Only then can she be interested in having sex with you.

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