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8 Things To Know Before Going Into A Relationship|R-R

Are you faced with that decision to get into a relationship or not? Making such decisions isn’t easy especially when you don’t know what it feels like to be in a relationship.

What things must you know before going into a relationship?

Kyle didn’t know the first thing to do with the banana was to take its peel off, so he ate them all together.

Weird right?

The same scenario occurs in a relationship when you jump into one without knowing what’s up about relationships.

It’s all going to be weird.

So to have a better relationship, you must know what’s in for you in a relationship before considering one.

Things to know before going into a relationship

This post will reveal in a simple way, certain things you must have in mind when about to consider a relationship.

All for the best experience.

Are you ready to hear them?

Let’s dive into them right away.

  1. Relationship Time
8 Things To Know Before Going Into A Relationship

A relationship is time-consuming. If you feel too busy and aren’t flexible to allocate time to someone else, don’t go into a relationship.

Every relationship needs time from both partners to grow and flourish.

When in a relationship, your time management scheme will be uttered.

Don’t be deceived, you can’t cope with a relationship that you fail to give your time.

Partners are attention seekers in a relationship.

To strike a balance, you need to trade your time.

  1. Finances

No matter how cheap you think dating a particular boy or girl is, you’re bound to spend a reasonable amount from your finance.

The liabilities may come via airtime, data subscription, transportation fare, gifts, vacations, shopping, and so on.

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If you aren’t willing to spend something out of your finance, don’t consider a relationship.

The relationship presents some kind of situation you must take responsibility for your finance.

Relationship puts your credit card on the line often.

  1. Decision Making
8 Things To Know Before Going Into A Relationship

Yeah, decisions influence relationships.

If you are that individual who likes taking personal decisions without consulting anyone, then the relationship isn’t for you.

In a great relationship, before decisions are made by anyone involved, they are dialogued by both partners to reach a conclusion.

No matter how insignificant those decisions maybe, you don’t make them on your own when in a relationship.

You must directly or indirectly talk about them with your partner before you take any decision.

Are you in for the game?

When in a relationship, if you make a decision without the knowledge of your partner, you’re only making them feel less valued in the relationship.

  1. Stress

Yeah, being in a relationship is stressful, not minding whether you’re dating “Mr right or Miss right”.

A relationship requires efforts.

More effort put into loving, trusting, and commitment.

This effort makes the relationship stressful.

Good times come around in a relationship, so do bad times too.

Time for fun and time to fight and fix.

That’s simply life.

It’s common even in a mutual relationship with the family.

So it isn’t much of a big deal. The fun time is worth the stress.

  1. Striking Balance
8 Things To Know Before Going Into A Relationship

If you get distracted easily, lacking the skill of multi-tasking, you shouldn’t be in a relationship.

In a relationship, you must strike a balance.

Be organized.

Flow with all other aspects of life.

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Some people when in a relationship find it difficult to carry out other aspects of their usual life.

Some drop-in work performance or academics, kick family and friends farther, and so on.

To be in a relationship, you must have the ability to balance life.

  1. Selflessness

If you find it difficult to rank someone’s priorities before yours, then the relationship isn’t for you.

In a relationship, you will be forced by the forces of love to place your loved ones before yourself.

The relationship isn’t about “I” or “Me”, it’s about “We” or “Us”.

Thinking only of your own gains doesn’t work in a relationship.

If you’re used to that, you need to change if you must consider a relationship.

  1. Romance and Sex

Many people have confronted me with this question. Is it possible to date without romance or sex?

Romance may or may not lead to sex.

Considering a relationship, you must have it in mind that some little forms of romance will come in and sex likely.

It depends on the individuals involved.

Humans are left roaming about with their sexual urges always.

When in a relationship, these urges can trigger romance or sex.

  1. How you start thinking about Marriage

Relationships have the ability to tweak your thoughts on marriage.

You are likely to have a positive thought about marriage when you’re enjoying a great relationship.

Relationships build your expectations for marriage.

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